Personally in any relationship I find that communication is the best way to prevent any misunderstandings or hurt feelings. I would suggest trying the conversation again except perhaps bring up the subject of using toys with each other. Start out small perhaps some massage oils, feathers, et cetera. If he is open to this browse a catalog of toys together. If he is still adamant that he is against toys and will not give you a valid reason why then I would say he has some communication issues and you may be better off getting one yourself or moving on.
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